Dress Your Age?
Hello Fashion Friends! It’s been a minute… two and a half years in fact. It’s partly having the time and partly having the “voglia” (Italian for “want”). But this weekend I had time and I needed the distraction.
A few days ago, one of the friends sent a link to an article about ageing in our group chat. Before even opening it, I thought “this is going to be depressing” and it was. Did you know that ageing is not so gradual? And that we age in 2 spurts in our mid-40s and early to mid-60s – men and women alike 
But I’m going on a tangent. Back to the matter at hand.
Shortly after reading that article, I came across another one about dressing your age (Anna Murphy, The London Times), and thought “oh boy another depressing one.” But I was pleasantly surprised and inspired by this one. So I opened up my closest, put a few outfits together, and write this post. Hope you enjoy 
Skirts
Have you noticed that skirt (and dress) hem lengths have changed recently? They’re mostly midi and ankle length (plus a few minis). Personally, I like this trend b/c midi length is my preference already. Those in-the-middle, knee length styles now appear dated and therefore can age you. The good thing about longer hems too is that they can be adjusted to your ideal length, as I did with this H&M skirt pictured here. However, this is not a hard and fast rule. It depends on the cut, style, and fabric of the skirt. For example, if hemmed, a trumpeted satin skirt could become misshapen, or a very light weight fabric like chiffon won’t fall properly.
I’ve also noticed that A-line cuts and pleats have made a comeback, which I’m loving 
Have Fun!
Make fashion fun! Select unique pieces that make you feel good – and wear it like a BOSS. And step a little outside your comfort zone. When I first purchased this dress (which might actually be a nightgown?) I thought “it will be a vacation dress.” And I did wear it on vacation. But then I was like “why can’t I wear this in the city?” And so I did! I styled it with a metallic belt to cinch the waistline paired with these pink flatform jellies to make it more youthful.
Athleisure
If you’ve been around for a bit, you know my pov on athleisure. For those who may be new or need a reminder, another unpopular opinion: we’ve taken it too far. And if we’re a little more mature, it can come off as frumpy, especially if it’s head to toe athleisure. However… I definitely think there is space for athleisure pieces within your wardrobe that can be styled appropriately. This look features these jogger pants, which are comfortable and gently tailored, featuring an elastic waistband in the back and a button with zipper in the front. Paired with a vest/blazer, I can wear this to work. Paired with a tee or knit sweater, the look gives “running weekend errands.”
Dish Tips: when colour-blocking, use at least 3 colours, and for a neutral toned look, add something for a pop of colour, like neon flats 
Jeans
Jeans can be tricky b/c styles change all the time and something too trendy will fall out of style quickly. Continuing to wear them, then, can age us. I recommend to stick to medium to dark washes and straight or bootcut styles. These stand the test of time and are flattering on just about every body type. Thank goodness higher waistlines have remained on trend for several years now. There was a short blip back into the Britney Spears circa early 2000s super low rise, which I’m thankful, didn’t stick. Phew 
crisis averted. Super skinny / jegging styles, I hate to say it, can also age us. Opt for tapered instead.
Colour
Unpopular opinion: when I see people wearing head to toe black all the time – men and women alike, I’m like “are you in mourning?” Include some colour! I love a classic style, through and through, but I want to use fashion to express my personality too. So I try to find classic fits and styles in beautiful colours, prints, and textures. As we get older, all black looks can be harsh against the skin, causing us to look older.
Flaunt It!
Highlight your best feature (if you want) and do it tastefully. Got great gams? Those minis are for you. Tiny waist line? Wear separates. Toned arms? Go sleeveless. Hourglass figure? Structured clothes are for you. There is a fine line to toe with this one. I’m always one to encourage women to wear what makes them feel good, but too much skin can bring with it a lot of criticism. I recommend to choose one body part at a time to highlight. If you’re going open back or plunging neckline, keep the skirt hem longer (or wear tailored wide leg pants – very sexy). If you’re donning a mini skirt, cover up on top.
Thanks for reading. Hope you found it helpful.